From “Yes” to a Plan: The First Step After a Valentine’s Engagement

If you got engaged on Valentine’s Day, congratulations.

There’s something undeniably romantic about choosing a day already devoted to love. It feels intentional. Symbolic. A little cinematic.

And then the next morning arrives - a little quieter, a little more real than the night before.

Exciting. Emotional. Slightly overwhelming.

Because now the questions begin.

What year?

How many guests?

Should we start booking immediately?

Before you open twelve browser tabs and compare every available Saturday in 2027 - pause.

The first step after “yes” isn’t booking.

It’s clarity.

The First Step Isn’t Pinterest - It’s Alignment

Before you fall in love with a venue, a color palette, or a trending date, have three honest conversations:

1. What are we comfortable investing?

2. Who absolutely must be in the room?

3. How do we want this to feel - not just look - but feel?

When couples skip alignment, planning becomes reactive.

When they start with alignment, planning becomes intentional.

And intentional weddings feel different.

They feel calm.

They feel cohesive.

They feel like you.

Valentine’s Engagements Don’t Require Panic Planning

Yes, certain seasons book quickly.

Yes, in-demand vendors fill their calendars.

But rushed decisions often cost more - financially and emotionally.

Thoughtful planning isn’t about moving slowly.

It’s about moving strategically.

At A Southern Engagement, we guide couples from the very beginning - not just in the final stretch. That means clarity before contracts, structure before spending, and confidence before commitments.

For now:

Celebrate.

Call your families.

Take the ring photos in natural light.

Enjoy being newly engaged.

When you’re ready to move from “yes” to a real plan - one that protects your budget, your time, and your peace - we’re here.

You’ve done the dreaming.

Let’s build this well.

Cheers 🥂

Kimberly

Pizza, Elevated: Why Our Planning Team Loves MozzaPi’s Wood-Fired Pizza Truck

When couples mention serving pizza at their wedding, the question we usually hear next is:

“But will it still feel elevated?”

As planners, we care less about what you’re serving and more about how it’s executed. And after coordinating a wedding with MozzaPi, we can confidently say this:

Pizza can absolutely be elevated — when the logistics are done right.

How This Wedding Was Actually Executed (Planner POV)

At the wedding we planned with MozzaPi, the wood-fired pizza truck itself wasn’t positioned where guests could gather around it. Parking needs and venue logistics meant the truck stayed out of guest view — and that’s where thoughtful planning made all the difference.

Instead of a build-your-own or made-to-order setup, the couple pre-selected their pizza flavors in advance. This allowed MozzaPi to cook continuously and efficiently, keeping service smooth and timing tight.

Once pizzas were finished, they were:

• Fully baked in the wood-fired oven

• Sliced immediately

• Brought straight inside to the buffet area

Guests were able to grab hot, fresh pizza right away — no waiting, no confusion, no bottlenecks.

From a planner’s perspective?

This was a win.

Why This Still Felt Elevated (Even Without the “Show”)

Elevation doesn’t require spectacle.

What matters most is:

• Food arriving hot and consistently

• A service flow that keeps guests moving

• Clear expectations set ahead of time

• Zero disruption to the overall timeline

This setup delivered all of that.

The buffet stayed stocked, lines moved quickly, and guests could grab slices and return to conversations without feeling rushed or stalled. The energy stayed relaxed and social — exactly what couples hope for during dinner.

And spoiler: guests cared far more about how good the pizza was than where it was cooked.

Elevated Doesn’t Have to Mean Formal

There’s a misconception that elevated weddings require plated meals, assigned courses, and strict structure.

In reality, elevation comes from:

• Intention

• Quality

• Flow

MozzaPi delivered a meal that felt:

• Thoughtful, not casual

• Relaxed, not disorganized

• Fun, without sacrificing professionalism

It was approachable food, executed at a high level — and that’s a sweet spot we love.

What Guests Actually Remember

Weeks later, your guests may not recall:

• The exact menu wording

• The side dishes

• The formality level

But they will remember:

• Grabbing hot pizza with zero wait

• Loving the flavors

• Feeling comfortable and well-fed

• Saying, “That was SUCH a good idea.”

And that’s the kind of feedback couples want.

A Planner’s Takeaway

This experience was a perfect reminder that great catering is about planning, not performance.

MozzaPi adapted seamlessly to the venue’s logistics while still delivering an incredible guest experience — and that flexibility is exactly what we look for in vendors we trust.

If you love the idea of pizza at your wedding but want it to feel intentional, polished, and guest-friendly, execution is everything.

Sometimes the most memorable wedding meals come from ideas that feel familiar — just done really, really well.

Cheers 🥂

Kimberly

You Don’t Need a Massive Budget to Make Something That Matters

Before I say anything about budgets or films or weddings, I want to be honest about where this thought started.

I’ve been a fan of Markiplier (Mark Fischbach) for over eight years. Long enough to notice patterns. Long enough to see not just the big moments, but the consistency behind them. The way he shows up—not only for his passion projects, but for the community that’s grown alongside him over time.

So when I saw the response to Iron Lung, what stood out to me wasn’t just the film itself. It was the people. The ones who showed up to celebrate it like it mattered personally—because to them, it did.

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And that’s when it clicked for me: this isn’t really about movies or money.
It’s about community.
And what happens when you build something with heart, over time.

Smaller Budget ≠ Smaller Vision

Iron Lung wasn’t made with a traditional Hollywood safety net. It was self-funded. Intentional. Personal.

And you can feel that.

Not because it’s flashy—but because it’s honest. Because it reflects years of trust built with people who believe in the person behind the work, not just the finished product.

And that’s the part people miss. Meaning doesn’t come from excess.
It comes from clarity. From knowing what you care about and being willing to back it—even when it would be easier to wait.

This Isn’t About “Doing It Cheap”

This isn’t about doing something “cheap.” And I want to be really clear about that.

Choosing a smaller or self-funded path isn’t about cutting corners—it’s about prioritizing. It’s deciding what actually matters to you instead of what looks impressive from the outside.

I see this mindset show up all the time:

• In creatives building projects between real-life responsibilities

• In business owners funding growth one step at a time

• In couples making intentional wedding decisions instead of checking boxes

None of that is small. It’s deliberate.

Where This Connects to Weddings (Because It Always Does)

I’ve been part of hundreds of weddings, and if there’s one thing that becomes crystal clear every single time, it’s this:

Never is it more evident who your people are than when they are celebrating you at your wedding.

I’ve seen weddings with big budgets that feel a little cookie-cutter—like they could belong to almost anyone.
And I’ve seen weddings with thoughtful, intentional choices feel unmistakably personal.

The difference is never just money.

It’s who’s there.
Why they’re there.
And the relationships that were built long before the wedding day ever arrived.

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The same way a creator’s community shows up when something meaningful is released, a couple’s people show up when the celebration reflects who they truly are.

Community Is the Part That Can’t Be Bought

When something is built with heart—whether it’s a film, a business, or a wedding—people feel it. They root for it. They show up for it.

Not because they’re obligated to.
But because they want to.

That kind of support doesn’t come from a bigger budget. It comes from consistency, trust, and showing up as yourself long before the spotlight is on.

Where I Always Land With This

When I think about it long enough, this isn’t really about movies or budgets or production value at all. It’s about people. It’s about who shows up when something matters to you—and who’s been there long before the moment everyone else sees. I see this so clearly at weddings: the most powerful part of the day is never the prettiest detail or the most expensive choice. It’s the room full of people who know your story, who are proud of you, who are genuinely happy to celebrate you. That kind of support can’t be bought. It’s built over time. And when you build something with heart—whether it’s a film, a business, or a wedding—your people always find their way to you.

Cheers 🥂,

Kimberly

💍 She Said Yes—And the Internet Imploded Taylor Swift + Travis Kelce are engaged, y’all!

The pop icon and her Kansas City lover just made it official—and the entire internet can’t stop screaming. Pastel dreams, whispered vows, and an entire wedding-planner A‑team forming in real time.

Stop the presses. Cancel your to-do list. Text the group chat.

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🥂 The Proposal (Spoiler: No Paparazzi, Just Petals)

While the online chaos unfolded on August 26, the real romance happened around August 10—at a garden decked-out zone at Travis’ home in Missouri. Flowers. Wine. Just the two of them. And then that killer Instagram post:
“Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married.”
Cue every planner, romantic, and Swiftie everywhere.

💅 Why This Is the Romance We Needed

It wasn’t just that they got engaged—it’s how they did it.

• No stage lights, just sunshine.

• No choreo, just chemistry.

• No stylists in sight, just soft garden vibes and real emotion.

• And bonus points: Travis’ dad got the news during an Eagles practice. 10/10 detail.

A Kelce Bro Moment to Remember

Okay, full transparency: Jason Kelce didn’t strip off his shirt at the proposal—but he did make headlines previously for going shirtless. So naturally, fans are already joking: Best. Best Man. Ever.

We see you, shirtless hype king. And honestly, we’re here for the chaos.

💡 The Wedding Planner in Me Is Spiraling (In the Best Way)

Listen. I’m not saying I already have the wedding planned in my head, but… here’s what we might see:

• A custom wedding merch wall (because we’ve graduated from friendship bracelets to limited-edition “Mrs. Kelce” crewnecks and glitter tumblers)

• Three outfit changes minimum, each with its own spotlight moment and a glam squad working overtime

• Cocktails like Tight End Tonic or Lavender Haze Lemonade (tasteful? Maybe. Legendary? Absolutely.)

• A guest list that could double as the NFL-Hollywood crossover event of the century, not to mention the most stunning bridal party ever! (Hi Blake 👋🏻)

This wedding will have spreadsheets, security, and sparkle—and I want to send the planner a thank-you drink.

💕 From One Love Story to Another

I’m not a full-blown Swiftie, but I’ll always show up for a woman writing her own story—with heart, humor, and the confidence to go all-in on love. I have always respected her work and how real she is.

Here’s to Taylor and her Kansas City lover.

Garden proposals. Instagram stakes. And Jason Kelce, giving us peak shirtless hype man energy—whether the wedding invite says “dress code: optional” or not.

May your life together be as epic as that Sunday afternoon and as enduring as a perfectly placed lyric.

Ready to create your own “OMG we’re doing this” moment?

Whether your plans are backyard bash, ballroom glam, or candlelit and cozy, we’ll make sure it’s unforgettable.
Let’s plan your day. 💌

Great Restaurants for Rehearsal Dinner in (or around) Louisville

“Looking for a restaurant that has space for our rehearsal dinner”

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This is a common question in local wedding groups so we thought we’d share some of the research we’ve compiled:

Monnik Beer Company

O'Shea's Downtown has several spaces, from the Whiskey Cellar, Skylight Room, Grand Loft Champion’s Room to the 123 Room, or head on up to the rooftop for the Penthouse & Rooftop Garden or if you prefer space in the Highlands check out O’Shea’s Carriage House, The Grotto, & The Garden Bar. In case you’d rather the other side of the River check out O’Shea’s H.M. Franks in Jeffersonville where you can rent the Monroe Room

Angel’s Envy has 2 fabulous spaces available and we were obsessed getting to view it all at a Private event we went to. You can choose between the Finishing room or the Toasting Room & Bar

Union Gameyard is just across the river

Le Moo and in the same vein they also have Grassa Gramma and The Village Anchor

Garage Bar

Mesh Louisville

Doc Crows has great options. Choose from Doc Crow's Southern Smokehouse & Raw Bar, Doc's Gallery, and Doc's Bourbon Room

Sidebar at Whiskey Row

BBC's Bourbon Barrel Loft

Copper & King’s Rooftop bar

Riverhouse Louisville

The Blind Squirrel - Tina is always helpful to our couples so you should definitely check out the private room they have

Selena’s at Willow Lake Tavern They have a great outdoor patio area and you can hold a rehearsal on the lawn next to it

LouVino Restaurant & Bar

3rd Turn Gardens has several spaces - for Crestwood - and for Jeffersontown

Against the Grain Brewery has 2 locations - one in the Highlands with a private space - and one in Downtown Louisville near 4th street

8up Louisville is a great Rooftop bar space and you can definitely book your private event there - and they are connected to The Henry Clay so if you need a venue for your wedding it’s a great combo. We’ve done several weddings at The Henry Clay over our 17 years in business and can always recommend you check them out.

Troll Pub Under the Bridge Downtown Louisville

Mussel & Burger Bar Downtown or Taylorsville Rd

The Old Spaghetti Factory Downtown Louisville

Harry’s Taphouse has 2 locations to check out in Jeffersonville, IN

Watch Hill Proper in Prospect, KY

The Eagle in Louisville on Bardstown Rd and also in Oxmoor

Malone’s on Summit Plaza Dr - Malone’s Steakhouse Louisville

Proof on Main which is attached to 21C Hotel Louisville - and we have done events at 21C so if you need a venue and love art you need to check them out and subsequently 21C Hotel Lexington is a fabulous venue and has LockBox Restaurant available to book for your rehearsal dinner

Agave & Rye Louisville

RecBar 812 in New Albany - which personally is a fave restaurant for us - has a private space that’s great for a rehearsal dinner or even a pre-wedding party

Sticking around in New Albany is a good idea as you can also venture over to Board & You Bistro & Wine Bar - while you’re there you can even place an order for charcuterie boards for your getting ready spaces

The Patio at PARLOUR on Frankfort Ave  

 Bradford Tavern

Flanagan’s Ale House

Molly Malone's on Bardstown Rd

Captain’s Quarters

Coal’s Artisan Pizza has 2 locations to pick from - St Matthews or Middletown

Bristol Bar & Grille in the Highlands

BJ’s Brewhouse in Oxmoor

Uptown Cafe’s Metro Room

Brooklyn & the Butcher in New Albany which allows you to choose between the open air patio or the Lantern Room which has speakeasy vibes

Are there any that we missed? Who would you add to the list?

🎉The kits are here!!!

New “Save the Day” kits have officially launched 🎉

There are a few options to choose from, so we’ll explain each one below.

Sale

Restroom amenities kits

from $45.00

Designed for the restroom, this kit contains supplies such as pain relief, hair ties, breath mints, period care, band aids, sewing kits, and more.

Packed neatly into a reusable acrylic container, all you have to do is unpack and set up the items into the container and place it on the counter.

This kit can be purchased for $50

The alternate kit option contains pain relievers, breath mints, toothbrush/paste, band aids, sewing kits, stain removers and more.

This kit can be purchased for $45

Both can be purchased together for $85

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Save the day emergency kits

$100.00

Designed to be used in the getting ready spaces for the wedding party, this kit will include the same items as the restroom amenities kits PLUS deodorant, safety pins, lint roller, hairspray, double-sided tape, hydration sticks, bug spray, & more.

Kit is also available in a backpack for easy travel. Cost for either kit is $100

They’re coming!!!

We are launching a few products that we are super excited about and we know you’re gonna love ‘em!

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Introducing:

Our brand new Amenities kits. WTH are Amenities kits, you ask?! They are “emergency” kits for your wedding party to have in their suite and also those cute restroom baskets we’ve all seen.

We’re still working on the platform we’ll use to launch the shop but pre-orders will be live this month!

Sign up for launch info

Wanderlust Weddings: Discovering the Magic of Road Trip Adventures

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Disclaimer: We are not affiliated with or sponsored by “the Bach” app. The mention of the app in this blog post is for illustrative purposes only and does not imply any endorsement or partnership. Instead, we based our suggestions on general ideas & concepts about road trips and wedding planning.

It’s National Road Trip Day!! Ready to embark on an extraordinary adventure that seamlessly blends weddings and road trips? Fasten your seat belts and prepare to hit the road in style!

Have you considered spicing up your pre-wedding festivities with a unique twist? Rather than settling for a typical bachelor or bachelorette party, why not hit the road and create unforgettable memories? As passionate planners and tech enthusiasts, we’ve scoured the market for ways to simplify the tedious spreadsheets and group texts that often accompany party planning. One fantastic tool we came across is “the Bach” app, which can make organizing your pre-wedding events an absolute breeze.

Are you having a destination wedding? Consider planning a road trip adventure to your wedding venue! You can make stops at exciting landmarks, scenic viewpoints, or charming towns along the way, bonding with your wedding party and family members as you create unforgettable memories leading up to your rehearsal and wedding day. 

Are you looking to start your married life with a bang? Why not plan a honeymoon road trip that will take you to new and exciting destinations, allowing you to indulge in thrilling activities and enjoy intimate getaways with your partner? You can create a personalized itinerary that reflects your shared interests and will enable you to bond as a couple. And why stop there? Make road trips an annual tradition by planning anniversary getaways to new destinations or revisiting places with sentimental value for both of you. Celebrate your enduring love and create new memories as you embark on road trips that honor your journey as a couple. Road trips offer endless opportunities to enhance your wedding experience, from pre-wedding festivities to post-wedding getaways. So why not embrace the freedom of the open road, and let the journey become an integral part of your wedding story? It’s time to celebrate love, friendship, and the joy of the open road!

Mind Your Manners: Navigating the Etiquette of Requesting Cash Gifts for Your Wedding

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Wedding registries have evolved over the years, with many couples now opting for cash or experience-based gifts instead of traditional physical gifts. While it's becoming more acceptable to request cash, it's important to do so in a polite and respectful way. Here are some tips for wording your request for cash gifts:

1. Start with gratitude: Begin by expressing your appreciation for your guests' presence and support on your special day. Let them know how much their love and support mean to you and your partner.

2. Focus on the positive: When asking for cash gifts, it's important to focus on the positive aspects of the gift. Emphasize how the gift will help you create memories that will last a lifetime, or how it will contribute to your future plans.

3. Be specific: Let your guests know how you plan to use the cash gifts. For example, you may want to use the money towards your honeymoon, a down payment on a house, or a new adventure.

4. Provide options: Remember to provide your guests with the option to give physical gifts if they prefer. Consider including a traditional registry alongside your cash or experience registry, or suggest alternative contributions such as a charitable donation.

Here are some examples of how you could word your request for cash gifts:

• "Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. If you would like to give a gift, we kindly request cash contributions towards our honeymoon. Your generosity will help us create memories that will last a lifetime."

• "As we begin our new life together, we are grateful for the love and support of our family and friends. If you wish to give a gift, we kindly request cash contributions towards a down payment on our first home. Your generosity will help us build a future together."

• "We are thrilled to celebrate our special day with our loved ones. If you would like to give a gift, we kindly request cash contributions towards a new adventure. Your generosity will help us create unforgettable memories together."

Remember to always express your gratitude and appreciation for any gift, whether it is physical or cash. By following these tips, you can politely and respectfully request cash gifts while still honoring the spirit of generosity and gratitude that weddings are all about.

Say 'I Do' to the Perfect Wedding Registry: A Guide to Choosing the Right One for You

Wedding registries are a great way for engaged couples to make the gift-giving process easier for their guests while ensuring they receive the items they need and want for their new life together. However, with so many options available, it can be overwhelming to choose the right one. In this blog post, we’ll discuss the different types of wedding registries and provide tips on how to choose the best one for you.

Traditional Registry

The most common type of wedding registry is the traditional registry, which is usually set up at a department store or home goods store. Couples can walk around the store and scan the items they want using a barcode scanner provided by the store. This type of registry is great for couples who want to receive physical gifts and who prefer to register for items they can see and touch before making a final decision.

Online Registry

Online registries have become increasingly popular in recent years. These registries allow couples to register for items from a variety of stores, all in one place. Online registries are perfect for couples who have guests living in different locations, as they can be accessed from anywhere with an internet connection. Additionally, online registries often offer a wide variety of items, including experiences, charitable donations, and honeymoon funds.

Charitable Registry

Another option for couples is to set up a charitable registry. Instead of registering for physical gifts, couples can choose a charity or cause they care about and ask their guests to make a donation in their name. Charitable registries are a great way to give back while celebrating your wedding. This type of registry is perfect for couples who already have everything they need or who prefer to give back to their community.

Tips for Choosing a Registry

1. Think about your guests: When choosing a registry, consider the convenience for your guests. Make sure it’s easy for them to access and purchase gifts.

2. Consider your lifestyle: Think about your lifestyle and what items you truly need or want for your new life together. Don’t be afraid to register for items that you may not have thought of before, such as cooking classes or a gym membership.

3. Don’t limit yourself: Don’t feel limited to just one type of registry. You can always have multiple registries, including a traditional registry, an online registry, and a charitable registry.

4. Check for perks: Many registries offer perks such as completion discounts, free shipping, and returns. Make sure to check what perks are available before choosing a registry.

5. Keep track of your registry: Keep track of your registry to ensure that there are always items at different price points available for your guests to choose from.

In conclusion, choosing a wedding registry can be overwhelming, but with these tips, you can find the perfect registry for you and your guests. Remember to think about your guests’ convenience, your lifestyle, and any perks available. Happy registering!

Say 'I Do' to Organized Guest Lists: The Best Online Address Book Tools for Weddings

Wedding planning can be an intimidating task, with so many details to keep track of and decisions to make. One important aspect of wedding planning is managing your guest list, which can be a time-consuming process if you're trying to do it manually. Thankfully, there are many online address book tools available that can make this process much easier. In this blog post, we'll explore two popular options: minted.com and postable.com.

Minted.com is a well-known online stationery and invitation retailer that also offers a free digital address book tool. Minted's address book feature allows you to easily import your contacts from your email account or social media accounts. Once your contacts are imported, you can create separate groups, such as "family," "friends," or "coworkers," to make it easier to manage your guest list.

Minted's address book also allows you to easily track RSVPs and meal preferences for each guest, and you can even assign guests to specific tables if you're using a seating chart. Plus, if you're ordering wedding invitations through Minted, you can use your address book to quickly and easily address your envelopes with just a few clicks.

Postable.com is another popular online address book tool for wedding planning. Like Minted, Postable allows you to import contacts from your email account or social media accounts. Postable's address book feature also allows you to create groups, and you can even create custom fields to track additional information, such as guests' mailing addresses or their relationship to the bride and/or groom.

One unique feature of Postable is the ability to send out paper invitations through their platform. Simply choose your design, customize your invitation with your wedding details, and select your guest list from your Postable address book. Postable will print and mail the invitations for you, saving you time and energy.

Both Minted and Postable offer a convenient way to manage your wedding guest list online, and each tool has its own unique features. Whether you're looking for an easy way to track RSVPs or want to send out paper invitations without the hassle of printing and mailing them yourself, these tools can make wedding planning a little bit easier.

In conclusion, online address book tools like Minted.com and Postable.com can be a real sanity saver when it comes to wedding planning. With the ability to import contacts, create groups, and track RSVPs and other important details, these tools can help streamline the wedding planning process and make it a little bit less stressful.

Now you might be asking “Are there other online address book options to consider?”

Our answer is a resounding YES!

There are several other online address book options that you can consider for your wedding planning needs. Here are a few additional options:

1. Google Contacts: Google Contacts is a free online address book tool that is integrated with Gmail and other Google services. You can easily import contacts from your Google account, and create custom groups and labels to organize your guest list. You can also share your address book with others, making it a great option if you're working with a wedding planner or other vendors.

2. Zola: Zola is a popular wedding planning website that offers a free online address book tool. With Zola's address book, you can import contacts from your email account or social media accounts, and create custom groups and tags to help you manage your guest list. Zola also offers other wedding planning tools, such as a checklist and registry management.

3. Evite: Evite is an online invitation and event planning platform that also offers an address book tool. With Evite's address book, you can easily import contacts from your email account or social media accounts, and create custom groups to help you manage your guest list. Evite also offers customizable invitations, RSVP tracking, and other event planning features.

Overall, there are many different online address book options available for wedding planning. Whether you're looking for a free tool or a more comprehensive wedding planning platform, there is sure to be an option that meets your needs. With these online address book tools, you can easily manage your guest list, track RSVPs, and stay organized throughout the wedding planning process.

Pawsome Memories: Including Your Pets in Your Wedding

National Pet Day is a wonderful opportunity to celebrate our furry, feathery, or scaly friends who bring so much joy and happiness into our lives. For many people, pets are a crucial part of their family, so it's no surprise that some couples want to include them in their special day. Including pets in your wedding can add a personal touch and create lasting memories. Here are some tips for including your pets in your wedding.

• Check with your venue

Before you start planning on how to include your pet in your wedding, it's essential to check with your wedding venue if pets are allowed. Not all venues are pet-friendly, and some may have specific rules and regulations, such as requiring pets to be leashed or caged. If the venue is not pet-friendly, you may need to look for other ways to include your pet in your big day.

• Choose a role for your pet

Decide on what role you would like your pet to play in your wedding. Some popular options include a ring bearer, a flower girl, or a part of the wedding party. You can also have your pet walk down the aisle with you or your partner. Whatever role you choose, make sure it's something your pet is comfortable with.

• Hire a pet handler

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If you plan to include your pet in your wedding, consider hiring a pet handler. A pet handler can help keep your pet calm and comfortable during the ceremony and take care of any issues that may arise. They can also ensure that your pet follows any rules or guidelines set by the venue.

• Dress up your pet

Dressing up your pet can be a fun way to include them in your wedding. You can have them wear a bow tie, a flower crown, or a wedding-themed outfit. However, it's important to make sure that the clothing is comfortable for your pet and doesn't cause them any distress.

• Have a backup plan

No matter how well-trained your pet is, there's always a chance that something unexpected can happen during your wedding. Have a backup plan in case your pet gets too nervous, agitated, or has an accident. This could be having a pet-friendly room nearby where they can relax or having someone else take care of them during the ceremony.

Including your pets in your wedding can be a beautiful and memorable experience for everyone involved. Just remember to make sure that your pet is comfortable and happy throughout the process, and you'll have wonderful memories to cherish for years to come. Happy National Pet Day!

5 Commonly Forgotten Name Change Items for Busy Millennial Couples

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When it comes to changing your name after getting married, there are a lot of items that need to be updated. While some things are obvious, like your Social Security card and driver's license, there are some commonly forgotten name change items that you'll want to keep in mind.

Here are some items you may forget to update:

1. Social Media Accounts: With the prevalence of social media in our daily lives, it's easy to forget to update your display name and username to match your new name. Make sure to update your name on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and Instagram, or any other social media accounts you may have.

2. Professional Licenses: If you hold any professional licenses, such as a medical or law license, you'll need to update your name with the issuing authority. Check the specific requirements for your particular license to make sure you don't miss anything.

3. Memberships and Subscriptions: You'll want to update your name with any memberships or subscriptions you have, such as gym memberships, library cards, or magazine subscriptions. This will ensure that you receive any communications or updates in your new name.

4. Utility Bills and Other Accounts: You'll want to update your name on any utility bills, phone bills, and other accounts that are in your name. This may include updating your name on your lease or mortgage documents, car registration, and insurance policies.

5. Email Addresses: If you have an email address that includes your old name, consider creating a new email address with your new name and notifying contacts of the change. This will ensure that any new contacts will know your new name and any previous contacts will know that you've changed your name.

Remember, the process of changing your name after getting married can be overwhelming, so make sure to stay organized and keep a list of all the places you need to update your name. While it may take some time to update everything, once you're finished, you'll be able to fully embrace your new name and start your new life with your partner.

Mix & Mingle Magic: Crafting the Perfect Cocktail and Mocktail Experience for Your Wedding

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Planning the perfect wedding involves many details, and one aspect that deserves special attention is the drink menu. Striking the right balance between cocktails and mocktails can make a significant difference in creating a memorable experience for you and your guests. In this blog post, we'll explore the benefits of both cocktails and mocktails and provide tips on how to craft a beverage menu that caters to everyone's taste.

Cocktails: A Timeless Wedding Tradition

Cocktails have long been a popular choice for wedding receptions, offering elegance and sophistication to any celebration. Here are some advantages to consider when opting for cocktails at your wedding:

1. Variety and Customization: Countless cocktail recipes can be tailored to various tastes and preferences. Create a signature cocktail that reflects your unique love story.

2. Enhancing the Atmosphere: Cocktails contribute to the overall ambiance of your wedding with their visual appeal and presentation.

3. Encouraging Socialization: Offering cocktails can stimulate conversation and interaction among guests, creating a lively and enjoyable atmosphere.

Mocktails: A Refreshing and Inclusive Alternative

Mocktails, or non-alcoholic cocktails, have gained popularity as a more inclusive and health-conscious alternative. Here's why you might consider serving mocktails at your wedding:

1. Inclusivity: Mocktails cater to guests who prefer not to consume alcohol, including pregnant women, minors, and those with religious or health restrictions. Everyone can enjoy a special drink during your celebration.

2. Health-Conscious: Mocktails are often lower in calories and sugar than their alcoholic counterparts, making them a healthier choice for guests who are mindful of their diets or want to avoid alcohol's negative effects.

3. Creativity: Like cocktails, mocktails come in various flavors, colors, and presentations. Create a signature mocktail that embodies your wedding's essence.

Combining the Best of Both Worlds: Cocktails and Mocktails

Can't decide between cocktails and mocktails? Why not offer both? This allows you to cater to all of your guests' preferences while ensuring that everyone can partake in the festivities. Here are a few tips for successfully combining cocktails and mocktails at your wedding:

1. Offer a Balanced Menu: Create a drink menu with equal options for both alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages, allowing your guests to choose the drinks that best suit their preferences and needs.

2. Pair with Food: Consider how your cocktails and mocktails will complement the food you serve at your wedding. Make sure the flavors of your beverages enhance and harmonize with the dishes you've selected.

3. Presentation: Maintain a consistent theme and presentation for both cocktails and mocktails, making them equally appealing and inviting to your guests.

Your wedding drink menu should reflect your personal taste and the overall theme of your celebration. Whether you opt for cocktails, mocktails, or a combination of both, the most important aspect is to ensure that your guests have a memorable and enjoyable time at your wedding. Cheers to finding the perfect drinks for your special day! 🥂

The Show Must Go On: Why Theater Kids Make the Best Wedding Planners

Theater kids often make great wedding planners because they have a range of skills that are well-suited for the job.

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Firstly, theater kids are often very creative and have a good eye for design. They are used to working with sets, costumes, and props, and can use this experience to create a unique and visually appealing wedding that reflects the couple's personalities and style.

Secondly, theater kids are often great at organization and time management. They are used to working under tight deadlines and are skilled at coordinating many different people and tasks. This is important in wedding planning, where there are often many vendors and details to manage.

Thirdly, theater kids are often good communicators and are comfortable speaking in front of large groups of people. This is helpful when it comes to working with clients, vendors, and other stakeholders in the wedding planning process.

Finally, theater kids are often very passionate and dedicated to their work. They are used to putting in long hours and going the extra mile to ensure that a production is a success. This dedication can be very valuable in the high-stakes world of wedding planning, where there is often only one chance to get things right.

Overall, the combination of creativity, organization, communication skills, and dedication that theater kids possess can make them excellent wedding planners.

Love and Bourbon: The Perfect Pairing for Your Wedding in Bourbon Country

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If you're planning a wedding and are a Bourbon fan, there's no better place to tie the knot than in Bourbon Country. Located in Kentucky, this region is known for producing some of the world's finest Bourbons and offers stunning scenery, top-notch venues, and a warm, welcoming atmosphere. So what's the big deal with Bourbon anyway?

Kentucky has a rich history of producing Bourbon, dating back to the late 18th century. The state's plentiful corn supply and limestone-filtered water provided the ideal conditions to create whiskey. Inspired by Bourbon County, named after the French royal family, the spirit eventually became known as Bourbon. Early Bourbon distilleries were situated along the Kentucky River for easy transportation of their products. Despite many distilleries shutting down during Prohibition, a few survived by producing medicinal whiskey. Today, Kentucky is the heart of Bourbon country and home to some of the most renowned brands globally. Visitors can tour distilleries, learn about production processes, and sample some of the finest Bourbons. Bourbon is still made using the same basic recipe of corn, rye, and barley and stored in charred oak barrels to give it a unique flavor. However, modern techniques and equipment are now used in its production.

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Here's what you need to know about planning a wedding in Bourbon Country.

1. Choose the Right Venue

   Bourbon Country has many venues to choose from, ranging from historic distilleries to rustic barns and elegant mansions. Consider the atmosphere you want for your wedding and choose a venue that reflects your style. Some popular options include Makers Mark, Jim Beam Distillery, and the Kentucky Horse Park.

2. Incorporate Bourbon into Your Wedding

   Since you're getting married in bourbon country, it only makes sense to incorporate this beloved spirit into your big day. Consider having a Bourbon-themed cocktail hour with signature drinks featuring local Bourbon brands. You could also give Bourbon-themed favors like mini bottles or Bourbon-infused chocolates. For the nearlyweds, you can dip your own bottle and grab a custom label at Maker’s Mark Distillery.

3. Embrace the Local Cuisine

   Kentucky is known for its delicious Southern cuisine, so incorporate local dishes into your wedding menu, including classic Southern comfort food like hot browns, fried chicken with biscuits, or more refined dishes like Bourbon-glazed salmon. Consider pairing the food with local Bourbons for a truly authentic experience.

4. Hire Local Vendors

   If you're planning a wedding in Bourbon country, you must work with local vendors familiar with the area and its culture. Your vendors will be responsible for turning your vision into reality while infusing the essence of Bourbon Country into your special day. Local Vendors are also familiar with the challenges of planning a wedding in Bourbon Country, such as dealing with the weather or accommodating out-of-town guests. By working with local wedding planners, photographers, florists, etc., you and your soon-to-be spouse can streamline the planning process, reduce stress, and ensure that your wedding embodies the spirit of Bourbon Country. 

5. Take Advantage of the Scenery

   The stunning scenery is one of the best things about getting married in Bourbon country. From rolling hills to horse farms and picturesque distilleries, there are plenty of beautiful backdrops for your wedding photos. Consider scheduling a local distillery tour for your wedding festivities, like our couple Bill & Christine did last year. They went on a date to the Jim Beam distillery early on and decided it was a must-have experience & location for their wedding. Or plan a post-wedding brunch at a nearby horse farm like the Historic Hermitage Farm & their restaurant Barn8. Alternatively, make reservations for your wedding party to enjoy a chauffered bourbon trail tour from Mint Julep Tours, complete with tastings and lunch.

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In conclusion, planning a wedding in Bourbon country is a unique and unforgettable experience. With stunning venues, delicious cuisine, and a warm, welcoming culture, it's no wonder that more couples are choosing to tie the knot in our beautiful region. So raise a glass of Bourbon and toast to your love as you say "I do" in Bourbon Country.

Cheers 🥂